2021.12.06 11:11 Gizzo04 Mods. Why was this taken down and why do you continue to censor me?
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2021.12.06 11:11 JaspersJazzclub Der Dünnschwanz-Schlafbeutler hat zwar keinen schönen Namen, ist aber verdammt schön anzuschauen.
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2021.12.06 11:11 NineteenEighty9 Chalice for the win. These look awesome.
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2021.12.06 11:11 DeputyPiglet If you live on or near a time zone border, in what ways does it impact your daily life/routine?
2021.12.06 11:11 Faridlee90 Originally by Dominic mayer (1890x4096)
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2021.12.06 11:11 GlitterPeachie Most other women seem to hate me; I want female friendships so badly
I feel like I can never talk about this because any discourse I see on this usually paints the one who can’t get along with other women as the problem; as “pick mes” or as having a “not like the other girls” mindset. I do have female friends, but they all live hours away now and I don’t see them often.
This is genuinely not how I feel towards other women at all. I genuinely crave female friendship and yet mostly find myself as being “one of the guys” because I just can’t seem to make friends with other women.
As a child, I was very overweight and I was bullied very badly in school and didn’t have any friends. In high school, the bullying stopped and I managed to find a small group of 2-3 other girls, 2 of whom I am still friends with as mentioned above.
In college, I once again made a group of friends, the “female group” who did all the girly stuff, went out clubbing, stayed up late talking - but once I lost weight, I was on the outs, and after an abusive relationship, they chose the side of my abuser and I was once again shut out.
That was 7 years ago and I have yet to make more female friends other than those I was friends with back then. I haven’t even been able to hang out with anyone for YEARS. I just want to go clubbing again while I’m still young.
In my new city, each attempt at making friends has been more painful than the last. At my first job here, I was immediately hated by my 100% female colleagues (no male coworkers at the store). Coworkers going through my bag, talking behind my back, shoving me out of their way, loudly making fun of my appearance near me.
I left and went to a new job at a large restaurant where I’m super happy with the work I’m doing and enjoy my work as it is. I am NOT treated poorly here - but I still feel tension and suspicion from my female coworkers.
A few of the girls still do the “MOVE!! Holy FUCK” thing where I get bowled over and shoved to the side, but most are just icy cold to me. I’ve been there for 2 years now and newer girls have come and joined the group immediately.
Sometimes I feel like I make progress with making a friend only to have it suddenly stall - I’ll get to work one day and my new “friend” is suddenly as cold as the rest, and they all make plans to go out in front of me. I never the get invite and I don’t want to invite myself, obviously.
The guys here and I get along GREAT though, and it’s not like a flirtatious thing. At this point my “working friends group” (people I see and hang out with irl) is almost exclusively male. I feel like they’re the only ones who have given me the time of day, who want to hear my interests, and not even in a way that makes it seem like they’re trying to fuck or date me, I’m very much in “bro” category to a lot of them.
They’re all friends with the women here too, but I’m not really included in the co-ed part of the group.
Even women outside of work seem to treat me with suspicion and derision. Some women at work (customers) straight up look at me as if I’m literal shit when I walk up. Recently, about 3 times in the past 6 months, I’ve had multiple women look me in the eyes and misgender me (I’m an extremely feminine presenting cis woman), which also makes me extremely uncomfortable and confused.
Most of the times in my life when I’ve had to put my foot down and establish boundaries, it’s been with other women. If I don’t, I become a doormat to them. It’s like other women don’t perceive me as a woman. But I’m no different than them. I know I have so much in common with the other women around me but it’s like no one sees it or cares. I know I’m a nice person, I’m a good listener and I’d help my friends with pretty much anything.
I just wish I knew when I’d finally get to have friends. In elementary school all the other girls went to birthday parties, in high school they all went to dances and had sleepovers, and now that I’m almost 30 they still want nothing to do with me. Even guys that I’ve dated see no/few female friends as a “red flag” and I’ve missed a few opportunities just based on that.
But every time I try to talk about it, even other women do the “ohhh you’re just not the other girls, so special and different, woowww” and act as if the reason I hang out with guys is just because I think I’m too good for them.
I don’t mean for this to sound self-pitying. I really just want friends I can go do things with. It’s been 7 years since I saw a movie in theatres, went to a club or a concert, or just hung out and had drinks at a someone’s house. As much as I like my guys friends it’s not the same. I feel so lonely at times and like such a freak because I just don’t understand why other women have rejected me my whole life
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2021.12.06 11:11 SahreeBrum Goodie Mob - Thought Process
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2021.12.06 11:11 MaxSiberia Snowfall in the Pine Forest
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2021.12.06 11:10 Rare-Abbreviations-7 Is Ride The Lightning actually Thrash Metal album?
Ride The Lightning is my favorite Metallica album, but I have a question, is it actually fair to consider it thrash metal album, since half of the songs on it don't really fit it the genre? I'm completely sure Fight Fire with Fire, Ride The Lightning, Trapped Under Ice and Creeping Death are thrash metal songs, but the rest songs on the record seem too slow to be called thrash
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2021.12.06 11:10 CaptKamClique Found a tree to haul home.
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2021.12.06 11:10 beatNick_ There Is No Reason
Why did you do it?
It wasn’t because of the consequences. That would be saying the effect is the cause. This is causa sui, a self-contradiction, a perversion of logic. And reasoning itself has no beginning. To prove something, you need to use other proven things, which themselves require other proven things, which … this is infinite descent. Reasoning has no bottom. People will “argue” that an idea is self-evident. So this is true without needing proof? This is true because it’s true (causa sui?)? This is obvious? - We are all bound to our own perspectives so to make the “argument” “it’s obvious”, is no argument, it’s irrational, lazy even. Sugarcoat your irrationality with the mask “axiom”, but there is still no reason. So there you have it, irrationality provides the conditions necessary for the growth of anything valuable, where rationality tends to be the growth.
As Nietzsche explains: A thought happens when it wants to, not when I want it. So it is a falsification of the facts to say that I am the one who thinks. He goes further: When we are awake we also do what we do in our dreams: we invent and make up the person with whom we associate—and immediately forget it. And again: There is no “being” behind doing, effecting, becoming; “the doer” is merely a fiction added to the deed-the deed is everything.
So what do we do when we do anything? We invent an identity for the task at hand, then we forget the identity to do the task, and move on with this process. That is our activity, there is no real reason for anything.
“Main thought! The individual himself is a fallacy. Everything which happens in us is in itself something else which we do not know. ‘The individual’ is merely a sum of conscious feelings and judgments and misconceptions, a belief, a piece of the true life system or many pieces thought together and spun together, a ‘unity’, that doesn’t hold together. We are buds on a single tree—what do we know about what can become of us from the interests of the tree! But we have a consciousness as though we would and should be everything, a phantasy of ‘I’ and all ‘not I.’ Stop feeling oneself as this phantastic ego! Learn gradually to discard the supposed individual! Discover the fallacies of the ego! Recognize egoism as fallacy! The opposite is not to be understood as altruism! This would be love of other supposed individuals! No! Get beyond ‘myself’ and ‘yourself’! Experience cosmically!” - Nietzsche
So what do we at least know?
From René Descartes: You exist. If you try to doubt your existence, then you must exist in order to do the doubting. And we know that we are subjective, but we KNOW that, this is objective. So you are a paradox. But let us not forget that perhaps everything is fictional: Truth exists. If truth didn’t exist, then it would be true that truth didn’t exist.
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2021.12.06 11:10 SKYWALKERAAD Sagar bhai Anne wale the na woh chess game hargay isisliye
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2021.12.06 11:10 davidekstirba best footballer in the world and Leo Messi
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2021.12.06 11:10 J2Rakathebruhman YOU VERSES THE GUY SHE TELLS YOU NOT TO WORRY ABOUT!!
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2021.12.06 11:10 Roboking365 ER Doctors and nurses how do you treat a traffic accident survivor that's botched, that there's nothing to hang on to but he or she is somehow still alive?
2021.12.06 11:10 IParryWithMyHead New book about Franco-Japanese sabre and bayonet fencing manuals
2021.12.06 11:10 yarelin I'm crying!! She's slowly becoming a sweetheart to Tsuki 🥺
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2021.12.06 11:10 YoMikeeHey Special Operations Squad [art by sine]
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2021.12.06 11:10 Fickle-Assignment819 You should come play with me
2021.12.06 11:10 Furzball Gaming build #2 (first is 8 years old, still good but I want an upgrade): Looking for reviews, advice etc. Should I save up the cost and wait till next Dec. or try and buy now? Thanks :)
2021.12.06 11:10 Elegant_Custard9617 Torcedores do Benfica criaram um site para devolver Jorge Jesus ao Flamengo
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2021.12.06 11:10 redditerX75 DPDR Self-Help Workbook.
| for Those Coping With Depersonalization. |
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