2022.01.20 16:15 simplenyc Been wearing these a ton lately. Have a nice day Rep Fam!
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2022.01.20 16:15 J_Portland Tilt Brush is being reborn in AR within Figmin XR
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2022.01.20 16:15 Fun_University6313 AC-HPAT
2022.01.20 16:15 djoker7 EndeavourOS Flair is available now on r/linux
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2022.01.20 16:15 FunkyFresh33465 My (20f)Best friends (21f) hasn’t been there for me when I needed her the most recently and I don’t know how to tell her.
Disclaimer: I have ADHD so I apologize if there’s a lot of text or “unnecessary” details bc they’re important to me and the story.
I’ve known my best friend my entire life and we bonded and became besties about five years ago and have never really had any issues up until this point. Her and I are very alike and share the same basis of morals, attitudes, and general opinions. We also share similar trauma which others in our life can’t relate too so we both realize how lucky we are to have the other in regards to be understood on a deeper level.
A little backstory of my life the past year. Moved out of my abusive narcissist mothers home and in with my (now) ex bf to escape bc I was suicidal. Moved 5 hrs away from everything I’ve known. I still managed to visit my bestie who was 3 hrs way from me multiple times. She never drove down or offered to drive down to see me.
Ex broke up w me and I moved 5 hrs back up state and in w my brother. I moved up here in June and since then she visited me once while I have driven 1hr 30 to go visit her many times.
Recently some very serious family issues came up some issues involving legal issues and domestic abuse, jail and possible fraud investigation. My mental health completely got torpedoed and I’ve spiraled back into my mental illnesses. My meds stopped working and just made me sick, I lost my medical insurance completely, my dating life was terrible because whenever I try to put myself back out there or show interest in someone I ended up getting ghosted and my work life has been hard because my management sucks and is constantly up my and everyone else’s ass all the time about something or another.
I since October when all of this kicked off I have been open and honest and communicative with my best friend and expressing how I’m feeling and how I need some extra support at times. Her usual replies are “hang in there” “you’re so strong” “you got this” “I know hun, keep your head up” “I love you and miss you”. She’ll say those even after I express how bad my depression is and how it feels like a giant black cloud or weighted blanket sits on my chest and sucks any energy or joy I get it all motivation or will to do anything enjoyed is completely gone and I just feel like I truly am not a priority or matter to anyone in the way that they do to me. On top of that it takes HOURS or DAYS for her to respond a text. I don’t FaceTime her or call her without asking her first because she has anxiety around that and I respect that but how am I supposed to communicate with her when she doesn’t answer her fucking phone?
Yesterday she asked me if I was gonna come to our friends little concert only if she’d given me no other information except that it was on the 22nd and it was $50. I already took work off that day so I could attend and see her but then I come to find out that it’s not being held at their place it’s being held somewhere else she doesn’t know and couldn’t tell me and then also come to find out that they plan on staying at an Airbnb that night too and go out to the bars drinking now I’m being the only one in the friend group who is two months away from being 21 can’t go out to the bars. This hurt a little bit considering that she knows that even though she knew everyone wanted to go out to the bars and that was the plan so it was either a I attend and then stay at the Airbnb after all night by myself till everyone comes home plastered and passes out drunk so basically I get to pay to hang out by myself or not because I have to pay for the Airbnb to or just not show up because even if I did go I wouldn’t have anywhere to stay afterwards. Once she said oh and they plan on going out to the bars afterwards but me and you can hang back at the Airbnb if you want. The rest of her friends,roommates and boyfriend will be there and I don’t want to be the one to be the party pooper who keeps my best friend back because I’m the baby of the group who can’t go out to drink yet. me after already taking off work for this then told her I just don’t think I’m gonna go at all to be honest and then she said that’s OK I understand.
To me this just feels like a slap in the face. I’ve been basically struggling all by myself and continually asking for support and help and to be there for me like she promised but anytime I message her she either takes too long to reply says one of the generic responses and that’s about it because she doesn’t come up to see me or she doesn’t make plans with me in mind and clearly doesn’t miss me as much as she says if she’s fine going this long without seeing me when she has the ability. I WAS DRIVING MY UNRELIABLE NO LICENSE PLATES CAR down an hour and a half to see her.
I guess the advice I need is how do I bring up her lack of communication and being the friend I need has hurt me because I know she’s not doing it intentionally because I know her inside and out but it’s kind of hard to know if somethings going on with her when she doesn’t communicate with me and isn’t giving me the support I need because I still want to support her but I am so tired of constantly extending support to everyone I love and when I need it I can’t get it back and then I have none for myself. I’m such a people pleaser and it physically pains me to bring up anything anyone does that hurts my feelings because I know it’s gonna hurt their feelings because I’m pointing it out isn’t that ridiculous?!? Please help. Am I being unreasonable?
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2022.01.20 16:15 Lonnie15 We Did It! Time to Start Digging!
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2022.01.20 16:15 Big-Fly4060 First day rehired
So i got rehired and my first day is on monday but i can get a shift tomorrow and this weekend. Can i work those shifts? I emailed my manager and said i still have to come on Monday or else im still “ineligible”. I called GSF and they told me i can start tomorrow if i really wanted if im able to pick shifts. What should i do?
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2022.01.20 16:15 NewsElfForEnterprise $50 billion of student debt could be wiped away in bankruptcy, report says
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2022.01.20 16:15 Iamthatasshole Anyone know what this is? Appeared randomly maybe 2 months ago when it started to get cold. Point of reference, my space heater in my office is next to that leg, but didn’t have this last year.
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2022.01.20 16:15 oscarR365 No means No! Stop asking for my name!
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2022.01.20 16:15 rrqq92 Hisuian Arcanine art (OC)
2022.01.20 16:15 CSPT_NBAHighlights [Highlight] Zubac posts up Jokic and hits on the sweet jump hook
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2022.01.20 16:15 ctofsrud Leggings!
2022.01.20 16:15 QuackerDicks Dad came back
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2022.01.20 16:15 andrewfishbooth Im far from an expert thrower despite the many years Ive been yoyoing, but I do love learning dumb, fun picture tricks like Darth Vader
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2022.01.20 16:15 supreem100 Ender 3 Pro. I tried installing a BLTouch and after trying to update the firmware my screen is completely messed up!
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2022.01.20 16:15 CateCait Anyone to try the Senna + Tahm Botlane combo before Riot hotfix it? LAS
2022.01.20 16:15 Fertez236 What 'little' event/thing would change the world as we know it?
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2022.01.20 16:15 SystemStriker1 #1670: Tori Brixx
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2022.01.20 16:15 CaptainsEyePatch Not humble bragging but
I’m taking political science research methods. This is a senior year class and. This is dumb. Like they are explaining shit I have known From high school. Is this a matter of me expecting more/to much. Or is advanced political science just the same stuff over and over again and you have to find your own interests? Note: this is my second degree. The first one being in political geography.
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2022.01.20 16:15 afd33 M81 and M82 from last night
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2022.01.20 16:15 bucket--bot good morning